Truth is always bitter and it obviously leaves many outraged the moment it hits you on the face, as in this case where a husband recognized his wife of 19 years, is actually a man and not a woman. Jan, the husband was simply outraged when he stumbled upon this secret about his wife, Monica and that too after 19 years of marriage.
When Jan’s first marriage was in troubled waters in 1993, this is the time he met Monica, who came to work as a nanny to his sister’s children in his hometown of Antwerp. And as per Jan Monica then was very beautiful and feminine.
He was a Belgian immigrant and had to confront many difficulties caused by the authorities of the Belgian immigration, to get her to Belgium. She was very beautiful looking then and showed no signs of being a male.
The 64-year-old outraged husband mentioned in the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper “I feel I’ve been assaulted,” as he had no idea from day one that his wife was born a boy.
Barely a few weeks back only, he recognized that his wife was naturally a man who underwent a gender change and transformed himself into a beautiful woman.
This truth about her of being not a woman but a man was revealed by her own cousin, who came from Indonesia to visit her and spilled the beans to the husband.
This is the moment when Jan recognized her from very close and began recollecting, why she couldn’t do the ironing of the clothes and cleaning of the house, though she was a good cook.
One thing he recognized that, when she was approached by him to have children, she very cunningly diverted the topic, saying no need, as he already had two children from his previous marriage and he felt happy hearing that from her.
One other truth about her he recognized was that she would act out her menstruating days and would use sanitary towels so that the truth can be hidden.
Jan went on to say, “Over the years she said she was taking the pill, and even during s3x I never noticed anything, though now I understand why she always used a lubricant, which is apparently normal among transs3xuals.“
Life was going pretty normal for the couple, where the wife was taking good care of his two children as an elder sister does. But things began to get tensed up when Monica started a job working full time.
Monica, during this time, pressed to stay out for late hours all by herself and on top of that, she would wear very skimpy outfits. And this made the relationship turn sour.
Jan went on to describe, how she would wear tiny tops, which revealed plenty of flesh and she owned more than 100 pairs of shoes. She was also caught gawking young men images on the internet by Jan.
Their eldest son spotted her many times at various nightclubs wearing flashy clothes with ultra-short skirts and sometimes tiny tops, exposing her abdomen.
Ultimately Jan was so outraged with this whole conning drama and after he discovered a whole lot of lustful messages from men on her computer, the burst up happened very violently and the cops had to intervene.
When he pushed her against the wall and told her that he has now recognized her as a man, she accepted and admitted this truth, but didn’t want him to remind her about her past.
After he recognized the truth, presently Jan is going through psychiatric treatment and is trying to invalidate the marriage which is under process legally. The Belgian court is not in favor of his claim, neither allowing him to drive her out of the house.
Liliane Verjauw, the lawyer ended saying, “That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably, she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are devastated.”
Today, they live under one roof, but in separate rooms, after the judge did not grant permission for her eviction from the house. They neither speak to each other because Jan feels cheated and fooled by someone he loved and is in no mood to forgive her. He just wants her out of his life.